💌 Love Is In The Air

Hello and Happy Valentines Day!

Today is the day of love. Some of you may have plans, sent or received candy, flowers or cards and some of you ladies may have a Galentines dinner planned.

I’m a lucky girl. I have both. I have a loving husband to share today with and girlfriends to celebrate Galentines with on Thursday. Lots of love and blessings.

As I’ve shared here previously, I am writing and rounding the corner of completion a new book. It is ‘8 Simple, Proven Steps to Manifest Your Soulmate’.

Today I’d like to share a little bit of the first chapter.

Step One: Divorce Your Past

Let that shit go!

Rehashing what happened, casting blame, carrying guilt, worrying about what others may think and the self and others' judgements, POOF!  Let it go!

It doesn’t serve the now or the future and it blocks you from a new relationship.

I know my rehashing kept me in the past. It kept me in the misery of the past that I so desperately crawled away from. Why would I keep looking back and dragging myself through the nastiness that I allowed to become the bulk years of my life when I am bigger, wiser and stronger than that now.

I’M DONE!

Now, was it as easy as saying it out loud?

Of course not.

Step #1 is ‘Divorce Your Past”.

Making that choice, standing in your self-worth and focusing on yourself and what serves your wellbeing, that’s the path to the new, happy life ahead.

I did it for ME and no one else. Do it for you!

This weeks' action is to evaluate the ways that you are clinging to your past. 

Are you still in contact? If so, how and when are you going to stop?

Do you mentally or verbally revisit past events or feelings? Are you dragging yourself and those around you into that stagnant old energy that doesn’t align with the version of you that you’re now creating?

Maybe you’re using your kids as an excuse to ‘stay in the energy’ of your ex. Set healthy boundaries and stick to them.

Maybe you’ve not taken the time away from running around to do a self-check and get to know yourself before jumping into another relationship. Step back. Breathe. Look in the mirror and sort out what’s working, what’s not working and set yourself free.

Write down how you’re holding yourself in the past and pick one from your list.

Now take action. How are you going to stop disrespecting yourself and change this behavior pattern? Write down your action steps.

Next, when will you start?

An action plan isn’t worth the thoughts or paper they’re written on unless you step fully into the action of doing. THE ACTION OF DOING!

Get started doing. You’re worth it!

That’s my share for today!

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Happy Valentines Day and Happy Manifesting!

Many Blessings!

Tearhsa Wilder

Spiritual Mentor, Teacher & Author

The Souls Harmony